Caitlin just got out of the OR again, where the head lung transplant surgeon here at UPMC Pittsburgh, Dr. John D’Cunha, inserted a trach. It gets the breathing tube out of her mouth, makes her a lot more comfortable, and helps her oxygen saturation.

He came in to tell us that all had gone well and that she was already in better overall condition because of it. He said, ‘I’ll feel a lot better when this one’s transplanted, though.’

Nick asked, ‘Anything?’

‘No,’ he said. We both felt that awful desperation that is forced to mix with patience. But the doctor went on, ‘But I have a good feeling about this weekend.’

And hope came back.

‘She’s the sickest person in the United States,’ he said. ‘She’s the sickest person who needs a lung transplant in the United States. You can quote me.’

Yesterday was my darkest day. But she pulled through and let me tell you that I can feel the outpouring of love and caring coming at us from everywhere. It’s palpable. While I was helping her relax before the trip to the OR, I put my hand on her chest. The energy coming through was like a magnet.

Thank you.

We are grateful to anyone out there who would consider the gift of a direct donation of life during a time of grief, as Nick’s family did when his brother, at age 29, died suddenly of a brain aneurysm.

Caitlin O’Hara is 5′ 2 with a blood type of O+ and is on life support at UPMC, Pittsburgh.

–Maryanne, with Nickscreen-shot-2016-12-09-at-1-31-36-pm


58 responses to “DECEMBER 9–‘The Sickest Person in the United States’”

  1. Cathy Fitzgerald Avatar
    Cathy Fitzgerald

    xo

  2. Karen Slodden Avatar
    Karen Slodden

    Oh Maryann I am sending the most positive vibes I can to you, Nick, and Caitlin. 🙏It will be a Christmas miracle, I just know it. 😘

  3. Carol Bradstreet Avatar
    Carol Bradstreet

    I am so hopeful. Caitlin is fighting so hard and you and Nick are so brave. Sending love and prayers..

  4. Jane Bernstein Avatar
    Jane Bernstein

    I read this, ache for you, wish I could do something beside hope each day, that Caitlin hangs in, that a perfect transplant arrives, and that afterwards, it is all healing. You do have a community of loved ones and near strangers, as I am, rooting for you all. Jane

  5. Kimberly Brock Avatar

    Sending hope hope hope hope hope

  6. Chris Hamilton Avatar
    Chris Hamilton

    All our love is with you 💗💗💗🍀🍀🍀
    Keep the faith xxoo

  7. Bobbi Robins Avatar
    Bobbi Robins

    Waiting with you! – Bobbi

  8. celticcalligbykaren Avatar

    Love and prayers.
    Karen Daly

  9. Steve and Carol Chafetz Avatar
    Steve and Carol Chafetz

    Love! We have a good feeling about what the doctor said. We have shared your earlier post which outlined the direct transplant options and asked friends to share this information. Our thoughts are with you all.

  10. Maureen donovan Avatar
    Maureen donovan

    Bless you and you family! Praying and thinking of Caitlin every day💕💕💕

  11. katie kulik Avatar
    katie kulik

    Can’t stop thinking of the 3 of you. Sending you so much love and hope. XO

  12. Margaret o leary Avatar
    Margaret o leary

    God bless you caitlin you are in our prayers every day and night candles are lighting to our blessed lady.💗 from us all in wexford.xxx sending you all our love.

  13. wayneroad Avatar
    wayneroad

    When I breathe I am sending love and strength to Cait–praying and sending, all yesterday, all today, all tomorrow.

  14. Shelley Avatar
    Shelley

    This brought many tears. I am simply living now for the moment you write that her lungs have arrived and she is in the OR.

    Sending calm and confidence and unwavering hope.

  15. Susan Needleman Avatar
    Susan Needleman

    I have asked many friends and family to send positive energy and prayers from any religion
    to Caitlin. She is such a strong person and is fighting so hard. Our thoughts are with all of you. Praying for a miracle soon!

  16. bonomabd Avatar
    bonomabd

    Maryanne and Nick: you are doing an incredible job with our beloved Caitlin. Stay strong for all of us.

    Thank you for keeping us informed and know that our hearts are there with you.

  17. celticcalligbykaren Avatar

    For Caitlin, Maryanne, and Nick,

  18. Kiki Avatar
    Kiki

    Praying🙏🏻❤️

  19. jenna Avatar
    jenna

    thinking of all of you and sending all good things for this to be resolved…soonest!

  20. Ann Marie Dionisi Avatar
    Ann Marie Dionisi

    I know seeing Caitlin with a tracheostomy might be scary but it will be more comfortable for her. My prayers continue for all of you. I too am feeling hopeful.

  21. Marcia Avatar
    Marcia

    It will happen, I dreamt of it all last night. I mean, all night. It was strange. Like an omen. As an 0 neg, 5’3″ woman, I felt it, for her. They won’t be my lungs but there will be lungs for her…I just know.

  22. Eileen Murphy Avatar
    Eileen Murphy

    What a fighter Caitlin is…an inspiration to everyone. She has so much to live for and is surrounded by so much love that she has no intention of giving up! Prayers, positive thoughts and love from us all.
    Eileen & Padriag xx

  23. Carol Feinstein Avatar
    Carol Feinstein

    Thoughts and prayers from Bristol, RI 💕💕
    Jonathan and Carol

  24. Lauren Lipscomb Avatar
    Lauren Lipscomb

    Sending my deepest prayers, vibes and love to Caitlin and your family. She is a fighter!
    Lauren (cousin of Elizabeth Phelan)

  25. Laura K Avatar
    Laura K

    There is an ever widening circle of people praying for Caitlin as we all share her story with friends to join her prayer chain. Caitlin may be the sickest person in the United States but she is also the most loved. Her fighting spirit is so strong. I am full of hope and thinking of you all. Sending love and prayers. Give my love to Caitlin.

  26. Jenny druhan Avatar
    Jenny druhan

    Prayers prayers and more prayers xxxx

  27. Maggie White Avatar
    Maggie White

    We love you all dearly and praying with all our hearts

  28. Roselee wayman Avatar
    Roselee wayman

    Praying. Praying. Praying for Caitlin
    Sending you all love and hoping for a Christmas miracle.

  29. melissa fox Avatar
    melissa fox

    sending so many positive thoughts and good energy. keeping caitlin and your family in my heart.

  30. Leslie Woods Avatar
    Leslie Woods

    Sending the strongest love possible to you all. I can feel the positive energy from here.❤️

    Sent from my iPhone

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  31. Florence Bavaro Avatar
    Florence Bavaro

    My precious granddaughter, in this most beautiful time of year, this season of miracles, I pray for my Caitlin’s miracle from God. I know it will happen! I believe it!

  32. Lisa Cohen Avatar
    Lisa Cohen

    I never stop thinking and praying for Caitlyn and her new lungs. They will come🙏

  33. Karyn Koulopoulos Avatar
    Karyn Koulopoulos

    Continuing to lift all of you up to the One who is our Healer. May each of you know and feel
    His grace and presence in new ways. Praying for Him to part waters and to give you all strength for this battle. Hold on and know that you are all so precious. Love and peace to all of you. Xo

  34. Liza Avatar

    Does it matter that today I was thinking,as I was driving, if something bad happens to me, please God, allow me to live long enough tell those who matter to give my lungs to Caitlin…oh please know how I pray for you all.

  35. Erin Avatar
    Erin

    Thumbs up “kid”. I’m on your team. -E.P., RN

  36. Kimberly Bavaro Avatar
    Kimberly Bavaro

    My hopes, dreams, thoughts and prayers are with you all…

  37. reggie Avatar
    reggie

    My precious Caitlen, I am praying you up.
    Nick & Maryanne you are both on my heart, know I love you so very much and
    I AM A REGISTERED ORGAN DONATOR in SC, 0+ blood type. XO Reggie

  38. Marcy White Avatar
    Marcy White

    I am hanging on your every post and hoping and praying to hear the news that Caitlin is in the OR getting her new lungs soon. Thank you for taking the time in what I know is the most stressful of times for you to keep us all with you. XO

  39. Suzanne Chapin Avatar
    Suzanne Chapin

    Catherine shared Caitlin’s status. We hope for new lungs for her. Our love and prayers are with her and your whole family.

  40. Sarah Bergmann Avatar
    Sarah Bergmann

    Sending love and positive thoughts ❤️💕

  41. Jillian Trailer-Rollock Avatar

    We’re staying hopeful along with you all for the transplant to happen very very soon.
    Sending love and hugs to you all.

  42. Dana Francis Avatar
    Dana Francis

    Hello my name is Dana Francis my family was touched by your husband’s love, perseverance, and dedication on finding lungs for Catlin. My father in law sadly passed away this morning at the hospital. I told my mother in law of the desperate need to find lungs for Catlin. We got the call this morning that my father in law’s blood pressure was failing and he wasn’t coming back. My mother in law asked the doctor if Catlin could have his lungs. Unfortunately his lungs were damaged from being on vent and organs shutting down. I am sorry we could not help your daughter but I will continue to pray that she gets her lungs soon. Giving life to another person is a wonderful gift. God bless you and your family .

  43. Jennifer brown (from cvs) Avatar
    Jennifer brown (from cvs)

    Maryann ive known u and Caitlin for many years now and shes one of the strongest ppl ive seen fighting a battle like this! I pray everyday that God continues to see her thru and give her that miracle that she needs and has needed for a long time. Thinking of u, caitlin and all of your family and sending prayers&hugs!!! Stay strong #caitlinstrong

  44. juneymoon76 Avatar

    God bless you all. I started a prayer chain for Caitlin 2 yrs. ago. ALL are praying & sending positive thoughts.

  45. Nicolina sabatini Avatar
    Nicolina sabatini

    Dear Maryanne and NicK

    Sending prayers and love to Caitlin, she will pull thru this.
    We are praying for a donor, please keep hope and faith in the meantime. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    Nicolina Sabatini.

  46. malcolmtinkhamgmailcom Avatar

    Maryanne & Nick, My thoughts and prayers are with you and Caitlin. I feel, as Florence stated, we are in the season of Miracles. I know one will come for Caitlin.
    Malcolm

  47. Susan Merck Avatar
    Susan Merck

    Although I do not know Caitlin, I feel as though I do. Her story is so sobering to the deadly sickness of CF. I pray for you today as you go in for your lung transplant. Love to all of you. Susan and John Merck

  48. jessicakeener4 Avatar
    jessicakeener4

    Ferocious White Light white light beaming onto Caitlin’s chest and the new lungs that are destined for her. White white intense white light filling her room and surrounding every person who is caring for her. Love to you all.

  49. Kathi Clapham Avatar

    Storming the heavens with our prayers!💙💚🙏🏻

  50. Mary Ellen Bavaro Avatar
    Mary Ellen Bavaro

    Caitlin, Maryanne, & Nick: Your Bavaro cousins Michelle & I and your Aunt Joanne
    are thinking of & praying for you. Thank you for your posts, Mare, and know that we are
    here for you always!

    XO M.E.

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